If I get seperated I will have to pay her child support which equals the house payment. She refuses to go. I've been in Limbo for 18 months. Me refusing to leave and demanding to go is more of the same controlling behavior she has come to expect. If I stay she will just continue to go out and use me for baby sitting and for financial stability. If I go she has neither. I will also sell the house and she has to worry about where to go. If I stay she could ring my bell in court. I love my kids to much to put them through supervised visits and anything else the court would decide.
Joe
H:37 W:34 D11,S8,S6 Together 19 years M:10 Bomb:4/09
