What a great exchange of ideas going on here! Good stuff.
*My bottom line is, I didn't sleep with anyone before Dan, which was easy bc we started dating when I was 16. I made him wait till I was 19, and he never pressured me before that.
*During college when we were broken up a couple of times I had a couple good makeout/fondle sessions, but drew the line at sex. Some would say that's not much of a line which is fine, it was just my own boundary for me
*During marriage I am one of those crazy kids like most of us here, who only had sex with my spouse. So, I see no reason to have a lot of sex now just because I can.
*However I also know the last time I was actively 'out and about' was in college. So much has changed since then for me and for the people I may date. I won't know for sure how I respond physically to someone until I have that attraction and desire for someone again. It will happen, some day. No sense over-thinking it.
