Letter to STBEX that I will never send

STBEX I just wanted to let you know that I think we are both better off without each other. I want you to know that I will always put the kids in first place; I will not dump them off on family members to act like a tramp. You wanted freedom you have it now from me and the kids. The kids will be just fine in a loving home that I will provide for them, I truly hope freedom was all you thought it would be.
I have had something I have wanted to say to you for months but the opportunity never happened. You can feel free to call our children’s home as often as you like, I want you to have a relationship with our kids, you have damaged your relationship with our children more than you realize, and I hope you do the work it takes to start repairing it. I think you should understand that now that we are divorced that our relationship is over, we are not going to be friends, I will be civil towards you, I will keep you informed on whats going on with our kids, but that is as far as it goes. There are several good computer repair companies in town and I would suggest that you get acquainted with them before you need them, the same goes for a mechanic, and customer service people with att wireless, I will not be able to help you with all the things I did in the past, you will have to take care of this stuff on your own.
I understand that loosing the kids is devastating to you, remember I lived for 3 months when you didn’t think I needed to see them, I know you are telling everyone that I lied and the judge just took my side, the 400 pages of stuff I copied off of your facebook, the pictures of your boyfriends cars parked along with license plate information that matches some of the names of the 8 men you introduced our children too. I know all of these men were just friends, It’s my fault that our 7 year old, and 10 year old daughter didn’t buy that friends line, they really are to young to know what boy friends, and dates are so I must be guilty of telling them.
I just really love the fact that you are telling every one in town that I am a child abuser, and a liar, you might add the world’s greatest actor to that list because I sure did fool that judge.
In closing I would just like to say enjoy your freedom, because now you have it.


Your parenting partner for the next 15 years


M40, W 37
M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
OM3, OM4
4 kids 10, 7, & 3
D date 10-14-10
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