Thanks for stopping by and thank you Lance for keeping the popcorn warm!
Lance is right, I'm working again. So between that, D12 playing football and S26 and DIL putting in a bid to buy a house up the road from me, I've been pretty busy.
I'm praying for my kids to get the house as they need a home of their own, but it may cause a problem with H.
I'll recap for those who may not know my sitch. In the beginning of this at bomb drop my H said he wanted nothing. Not the house or anything. He said he was going to sign his half of the property over to S26. Well it's been almost a year now since H walked and he has done nothing toward transferring his half over. S26 has asked him a few times about it and got no real answer from his dad.
The kids have been paying his half of the mortgage. In doing the research my son figures there would be no way to afford paying half the mortgage and building a house on my property. So, when the house up the road came back up for sale the kids went to look at it and fell in love with it. They're going for it and if the house passes the inspection the bank will give them a loan.
The problem that this brings up is H's half the mortgage payment. I should be able to cover his half too but it will make it so tight that I'll be living from paycheck to paycheck as I'm paying for all utilities (free gas thank God) taxes, insurance, etc.
If I ask H to pay what he legally should be paying that may push him towards filing for a divorce.
Now, I'm no longer scared of a divorce like I was at first. No, I do not want one, it will be of his doing. I also know that if he wants one there is nothing I can do to stop it.
So there's my story at this time. It will work out exactly as it is supposed to. All I know is that I want to keep my house and property if I can...
