He says he's feeling attached to me too. Frustrated that we didn't get together sooner (but we wouldn't have anyway because I was married and I don't agree with that). He wants to keep getting to know each other even though I'm leaving. He wants to keep in touch when I leave and possibly visit from time to time.

IDK... Thanks for the advice.


When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.