I strongly suggest you take the action I propose below as well as memorize the words, and then read as much on this board as possible to understand why it is the right thing to do/say:
DO NOT MOVE OUT OF YOUR HOUSE or YOUR BEDROOM. She wants out, she leaves. When she ask about your plans. DO NOT TELL HER. Use these phases often:
"I changed my mind" "I have not decided yet" "I am sorry you feel that way"
Choosing the other option and YOU moving out makes you look like a
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712