Well, there are lots of ways to get to know a person, right?
Two people don't have to live in the same city to be friends and get to know one another better.
Only you know your feelings but yes, I would think a large part of what you might be feeling is a reaction to being treated in a much different way than your H treated you. That is not to say there isn't more there of course but sex adds a few more complicated layers!
