Good point CityGirl. I'm asking if I should start something. It is all very quick and completely irresponsible. Yeah, we had sex and I guess I'm feeling attached now. I feel like it could be something great, but at the same time, I've just gotten out of my emotionally abusive, physically neglected marriage and I don't know if what I'm feeling is real or just a reaction to something different than i'm used to. I want to get to know this person better (yes out of the bedroom too) but there is so little time left to do that.


When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.