Im one also and I ask the same question, no one answerd. I guess some questions have no answers, I have my answer in 16 days I have a 99.99999999999% chance of getting divorced.
My wife filed for divorce, a court date was set, and then she postponed the thing twice.
You never know the future. The thing to do is accept that you don't know, and then let go.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-