Sorry I completely disagree. To some giving yourself up to someone random (meaningless) is no big deal which is fine but to some it is. It's not the part of me that just anyone can have and experience. To me there's nothing more intimate than sex and I will reserve it for someone special. Long term R or not has nothing to do with it.

Honestly, if a woman told me she'd had random sexual partners just to have sex I won't respect her because in my mind she doesn't respect herself and she can't possibly respect me either. And she's immature who's not in control of herself. No one wants to be someone who's been ridden like an old bus route- sorry. Of course, this is just my personal view, I feel strongly about it but of course everyone is different.

Bottomline is when I meet someone special I want to know that I mean something to her too. And that she'd been waiting and anticipating me. Not going through guys until she found me. That's not special.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again