Start of the end..

[iwantittowork]

Sorry all for not stopping by your threads first, but just wanted to post to my thread today..

I am officially divorced. (Pending 90 day waiting period)

Its mixed feelings that this has come to where it has, I am happy that I have some finality and know where I will stand financially, so I can make choices and move forward. It is also with sadness that a family had to be destroyed, and that I no longer want to even stand in the same room with the women I had thought I would spend the rest of my life with.

However, it is what it is, and I am in a better place, and that it's too bad it could not have been with XW, but that doesn't come from regret, just acknowledgement and acceptance of where things are.

Thank you all for following along, and I'll be around, but for today, I am just unwinding, as along with my D, I will be moving on October 10th, so there are quite a few new beginnings on the horizon.

What a ride this life can be, eh? All of you here have carried me at times through some tough things, and I am ever appreciative for your support, and hope that you are getting the same, as you all deserve the best this life has to offer!

Peace, IWITW.

(I had wanted my screen name to reflect that I wanted my marriage to work, but now that has come to pass, it still reflects that I want things to work, for d9 and myself, and we will thrive, no matter what comes our way!)