It was a few weeks ago Lance. Maybe on someone else's thread. I forget. LOL But anyway, there is no OW that I know of and he has been on his own now for a little over a year.

He moved from step-mother and father's to an apartment and then to another apartment and now he is in another apartment.

But the other in-laws are running the show now according to D13. Please read my post above.

That's what I'm afraid of to Lance, that he won't stay on the AD's. I know that depression runs all the way through MLC if that is what H is going through but do you think he will keep moving?

I still can't believe he was mad at D13 and that's why he hasn't called her or anything for 2 weeks. When she told me I almost died. First he tells her the phone rings both ways (that comes from his step-mother), who the heck is the adult here?? And this is not any of MLC behavior, he is actually convinced for many years that children should call their parents but it was different for him contacting his parents. He has 2 S's from a relationship from high school and our D13 is so upset thinking he loves them more than her. She said he calls them when she's at his apartment. UGGH!

The part in all of this is what I don't get is that all of a sudden in the middle of May he stops all contact with me and tells our D13 that if I text him he will read but not respond and same with calls. WTH??

So what do I do with this loan thing? Last month I just texted him and put loan is past due and they are going to charge fees if not paid today. So he pays on it and then closes it, which I didn't even think he knew it was still open.

Oh by the way, H's sister and mother said he doesn't need C he has them and H said that is what he told the Dr.......JUST GREAT!

Lance, it's on page 30 of this thread. Thanks

Last edited by Goodfight; 09/28/10 06:23 PM.

M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08