Ron: That sucks! I'm so sorry and also that you are here again. But you know you are among friends.
Have you kept in touch with Frosty? She has had lung cancer for the past year. So difficult & her a non-smoker even! I have stayed in touch with some of the öldies"
I'm still with Josh and we just bought a house together though we won't be living in it together just yet - its a long term retirement plan.
Your little boys must be growing up. How old are they now?
Hope you can come to the party. It will be the last w/e in Feb and it is planned for Indian Rocks.
I heard Frosty was ill but I had no idea it was so serious!
My boys are 13 and 15 now. I have been with W seven yrs but we lived seperate for awhile when she went off the deep end when her mom died. I was there for her. Now we have had a house for 3 years, we had a minor fight and she left 4 weeks ago and is screwing some guy!
That just sucks, Rondo! But you got through it once & you'll get through it again. Remember - deep breaths. Just live one day at a time. Heal yourself. Take your time...
All the things I was told but had to learn for myself.
I absolutely loved being married and I fought hard to save my marriage. We saw Michele in person and I DB for awhile, but I quickly saw my marriage, as I knew it, was over. At that point, I sat back and took a hard look at myself. Yep, there were lots of things I didn't like. I have taken the last 16 months to work on myself and get myself to a healthy emotional place where I can again think about finding a partner. I've learned that *you don't attract what you want, you attract what you are.* That might be hard for some people to swallow, but trust me...it's true. If the people you are dating aren't measuring up, I would ask you to look deep inside yourself.
Every day I get up, I meditate and I say to myself, "I love LOVE. I wil always have love, and I will find another to share that love." Now, I'm waiting because I know he's out there and he's close, but NOT yet because I'm not ready.
What's the best thing about being married? For me it's knowing no matter what, there's one person out there who's *got my back.*
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
Yes, but so incredibly painful when your companion whom you trusted 100% with your money, home, child, intimate secrets and fidelity turns around one night and stabs you in the back. Unfathomable!
Yet so common these days it seems. It really seems like an illnes. A plague if you will.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
