Originally Posted By: Goodfight
I have a question for you. You said that you thought H was in REPLAY. Wouldn't the DEPRESSION stage be the right one since he went to the Dr. on the 10th and was told he needed counseling and antidepressants?
When did I say that?
I just went back and read the last few pages which correspond to the last few months.
It is possible that he is in depression stage.
He is still living at moms listening to your inlaws.
So I don't know, if he still is having replay antics.
Depression is present throughout the entire crisis.
So it would not surprise me that he is on AD's.
What will surprise me is if he stays on them.

Please remind me, he never had an OW that you know of?
You still must not change anything that you are doing at this point. IMHO.

He is still in control and you must mirror him.