A new beginning to an end

[kat727]

I am not Romeo, but I would say about a 6 months after the divorce I was able to see my future without him. I started to see him and treat him as I would the mailman. Just remember I fought up until the end to save my marriage and I had been in that situation for 2 years.

I do still slip on occasion as I know I might in a couple of weeks when he marries his affair partner. I even had a pretty long conversation last night with him(regarding the cancer and the kids). We aren't friends but I try to keep him up to date with the kids as far as school and health matters. Everything else is up to them.

It also helped to visualize throwing that darn rope as far and as hard as I could. No more reason to pick it up and play the game. You will get there.

kat