Do you guys feel that she is doing it to gain my attention and expecting compliments? Or maybe even more? I have NEVER been good at making the first step or knowing what to say or when to say it when it came to intimacy. Maybe a fear of rejection or whatever. Our first kiss she damn near begged for it. That is a painful trend in my relationship with anyone I have ever dated. If these girls did not make the first move, I probably would still be a single virgin.