Here's a story...of a very sad lady

[mishka422]

You don't need to confront, only protect. You are doing a marvelous job so far!

He is hiding money....why should he still have any access to the account where your money is being deposited? Are you benefitting in any way from his income or has he changed where it is being deposited? If he has, then so should you.

Don't bother making a stink about OW and their working together. In the long run that could come back to bite you in the a$$ if he gets reprimanded for it by his bosses. Trust me.....been there, done that!

IMO, you need to get some sort of legal injunction (no idea if that is what it would be called or not) to stop him from hiding marital funds or removing marital assets. You can have all of the frozen, but I'm no L so you need to get one to cover your butt...ASAP.