I feel like a big bully. Must be something I need to work on. grin

But you might notice, it doesn't stop me now does it?

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There's nothing to do with that. Once I really saw that reality I sent the last email. The whole thing did nothing but cause damage. I believe I ended the interaction from a higher road then the one I was on. Seeing the stupidity of what was happening and just ending it - but not in a dismissive hurtful way toward her. Rather a statement of the nonsense we were involved in.


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I don't see any reason to continue on about this. We have wasted enough time and energy over a $27 box of pills. I'm sure we both have better things to do than engage in a petty argument bickering back and forth between us. I'd be embarrassed to show these emails to someone - we're acting like two immature kids fighting over nonsense. It has only added to the deterioration of our already deteriorating relationship and has added nothing positive to either one of us or our children.


What I've highlighted feels like scolding to me. Talking down to her. If I've misinterpreted this, I apologize. Do I think she's goofy for playing her games? - absolutely. Try not to let her pull you down to her level. I feel like you're dealing with a bloody idiot.

Taking the higher road is tough, consider cutting this chit off at the knees rather than trying to explain yourself. You have no need to defend yourself or your actions to her.

Don't be nice to me, just be honest. If this was off base, tell me.

WT