Begin'nAgain>>>Yikes! Walked out 3 hours later with a twisted stomach. My H is so successful in his business b/c he's a master salesman. He's paying for the mediation & I think that sets him up with an unfair advantage. It's also in the mediator's best interest to get us to agreement so he'll have a better rating.
So, I had to regroup, which took me from 3a.m. until 6:30a.m. this morning.
Our next, & should be last mediation, is on Thursday. I have come up with my bottom line & will take my chances with the judge if it varies off from that. I re-read the judges comments from the last hearing & think she might agree. Too bad it's not going to be over & done soon, it's so stressful & expensive. We haven't even gotten to the financial segment yet.
So my H claims he's willing to cut way back on his work schedule & be more of a SAHD, & also forgo out of town competitions, etc., all the mediator has to do is tell him to & done deal. Right! He's so tricky...
Thanks for asking, BA, it's not over til it's over!
FIB>>>Yes, I always do what's best for the kids, so I decided it was best to go our separate ways. I don't want to begin a new relationship anytime soon. I was clear all the way thru with him, although I think he thought I'd change my mind. I've been trying to keep up with you & laugh thinking about someone having a problem with 3 lol's in one email, lol!
