# 72 - Could be better, could be worse...

[mishka422]

((((((Kalni))))))))

So sorry to hear that your dad has quit fighting, but after a number of years I don't blame anyone who is terminally ill. Watching my mom go downhill in renal failure for so long is not quite as drastic as cancer, but not any easier. Again, so sorry.

I hope your H took what you said to heart. There is absolutely no excuse for him being verbally abusive toward you. You have put up with an enormous amount of sh!t from him and have worked so hard to make changes and be loving and forgiving. He should be begging at your feet everyday, not yelling at you.

I hope that him quitting that night job will lead to more closeness between you.