I have decided that you are right. Our marriage is over. I no longer want to be with someone, who doesn't want to be with me, and treats me the way you do. I cannot allow you to continue to disrespect me and this family, with the things you are doing. You are free to do as you please with whomever you please, but you should at least have the decency to leave our home while you do so. It's insulting to our children.
You are right, we both want different things, and I realize now it's not fair for me to discount the way you feel and pressure you into staying in order for me to feel better. I want someone who loves me and acknowledges the many good things I have to offer, someone who respects the sanctity of marriage, and is willing the give all they have and be committed to our family.
I am deeply sorry that you have chosen to leave our marriage, but I am not interested in a friendship with you. I hope you will understand one day. Based on all that has occurred, it would be a great diservice to myself to reward your actions and lack of effort with my friendship. I wish you well in all you do, but it's clear you have no respect for me and likely never did.
