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True, I think you should say, "Let me ask you something - what the hell was that all about back then?" Just kidding.

I think you should just be your wonderful new self. Ask how she is, thank her for letting you know about the picture and that's it. You dont want to get all tangled up in that again, do you?

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Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Might have to visit master Yoda in the northern lattitudes for some wisdom.


I can hear him now ...

Originally Posted By: master Yoda in the northern lattitudes
Ready not she is, wisdom is alone yours taking for.

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Originally Posted By: Master Yodess
Only one crazy wife you need at a time. Stand for M or stand not. There is no try.

The dark force is strong with this exW one...

Careful you must be. Hmmm. Hmmm.


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Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Originally Posted By: Master Yodess
Only one crazy wife you need at a time. Stand for M or stand not. There is no try.

The dark force is strong with this exW one...

Careful you must be. Hmmm. Hmmm.


ROFLMAO!

And you saved yourself an expensive long distance phone call too ... wink


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Grit

Where you wearing the beaver T-shirt when you were eating the wheaties? That might be it.

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Dude ... we missed ya last night ... just sayin' ...

Oh, and do I have to start texting again or did you call your travel agent?

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You guys are cracking me up! I didn't know you had an EXW Grit. How interesting! Me, I have two ex's, both of whom I have no feelings for but friendship. That was a necessary must as we had kids. Now, they take up for me like any other friend. They both think my H is a d*ckhead.

My advice? Not that you asked, but here goes. If you can be friends with your Ex ( after all it's been years) Just friends, then there is nothing wrong with that. If you think there is an ulterior motive to her call-change your number.

Me, I had as many guy friends as girlfriends in school. I could work on cars with them, etc. It's a different experience, but a rewarding one. As long as that's all it is. Just friends.

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Love the Yoda! seems very wise indeed confused

Grit - no reason you can't call exW - being friends is a good thing.


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I realized I forgot to link my old thread to this one.

Also as a result of Cat's recent post and our dialogue there

I realize how important it is for those of you who are currently here

and maybe newer to the process of what we try to achieve here.

It starts with great humility as you will see in my thread below

reading this again makes me all the more amazed at what this place has done for me.

I believe in it with all my heart and that is why I am here.

I hope my words and my journey may help.

Keep faith.

TRUEGRITTERS FIRST THREAD IN MLC
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1954288&page=1


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Hey Diddle Diddle...

And the fun just keeps coming my way!

I have a had a few very pleasant and funny conversations with W.

She is bringing up memories and we laugh now at how stupid some of the stuff was.

Laughing about what the pets are doing.

I have the dog and she has the cat.

Funny stuff. Like nothing ever happened.

She called me tonight to tell me she was leaving town to go see her friend in LA for her birthday.

It will be a surprise for her friend and she is one of the few I have met of W's friends that I truly adore.

And know she is friendly toward our M.

Anyway like I said W called me just to tell me she was going and won't be back until tuesday

I need to know this?

I guess I do....

I sh!t you not.

So I am still here just taking it one crazy wife at a time.

Peace out!


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