It's as if she's fine with me as long as there's no deep emotional talks etc, or physical affection involved. Then she can't handle it.
Good god. We've had the same marriage just flipped. Oh pinhead... don't give up...
Her money quote last night was "Why can't we just have a normal conversation?" It's as if she'd just like to pretend nothing is wrong between us. I can't live that way, at least not for long.