Has anyone noticed that it seems to be the emotionally resiliant partner that ends up on this Board dealing with the partner in MLC? My husband is a trained sniper, career soldier, roughest, toughest omhbre this side of John Wayne, BUT, emotionally, I've fought tougher ant colonies.
Your feelings of wanting to solve it yourself are quite natural. You've always been able to handle to rought stuff. As have we all. And, in our own different ways, we'll handle this. Having a place to go to for support; private, respectful, offering ideas but not shoving them down your throat, is a blessing we all share with one another.
Again, Thank you for sharing. You may be surprised whose already walked in your exact steps and may be able to offer support and advice.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011