Well, maybe yesterday was just a blip as H is in fine form today. He had worked 13 days straight and was reassessing his work so perhaps that was enough to get him uptight. He's put a lot of time and money into the career change so I can understand him feeling a bit down about it. I didn't handle it with my best DB either...think it just caught me off guard.
H came by this morning and helped me sort and tidy the garage as well as the back garden and pool area. What a bonus that was! I was prepared to risk my resolve of NC just for that help. I like the place clean and tidy but I'm not a fan of actually doing it and H is very organised and methodical. We did a big de-clutter of S's stuff (car and sports stuff) and H took some things home and then took another big load to the tip and the op shop. The garage and the garden looks wonderful!
Needless to say H's LL is AoS. Mine is QT so I guess we were both happy this morning.
As H was finishing I raced to the shower and off to lunch with my SIL. Perfect timing really. As I left I thanked him and he said, "No problem. See you tonight" Guess I need that steak after all.
So perhaps yesterday really was just a bad day. There was no sign of it today. Had lunch with my gf yesterday and she says H isn't ready to let go so I should do it for him so that I can move from this limbo. I know, I know........ heard it all before. There is something to what she said......I can't seem to move on and it seems he's not much different. This willingness to help and share information is a new stage but it is a lot more consistent than ever before.
GAG, you're right about the prayers. Prayer and meditation are important and bring me peace. I did get fairly caught up in the emotion of it all as I've been trying so hard not to pressure and to get things right. Anyway, hopefully it's back on track and I will be super careful that I keep a low profile for the rest of the week (unless he offers to start on the inside of the house!!!!)
As I type, D says H is back to fix the gate! Better get off here.
