Cas,

At times like this I am always surprised at how emotional I feel. It is SO hard when the MLCer "touches and goes". Please feel free to vent here. I have also found prayer to be very helpful in going through these ups and downs. If you believe in a higher power, prayer is communication with him/her. If you don't believe in a higher power, prayer is still cathartic and helps to clear your thoughts.

Remember, this is not about YOU. The MLCer has unresolved issues from their past that impairs their ability to constructively work through the normal conflicts that occur in every R. You have done VERY well to bring H back to this point.

Baby steps and patience.

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Last edited by goodattitudegirl; 09/28/10 02:55 AM.