so today my oldest asked me to stay home with him so we both played hookey today. He just want to talk and spend time with me. It was very nice, he told me he respects my decisions and he will help the other children to follow the rules. What more could a dad ask for.
My w kept texting me all day. she is very concerned that the kids know what happened with her and the OM. I just didnt get into it with her and she sent 17 texts in total. I just shut my phone off. So she called the house and spoke with our son. He told her i was busy. He didnt want to talk to her, and he didnt like her trying to bring the man who helped to break our family up into his life. He told her he loved her and had to go as we were having a special day just the 2 of us.
I know i might have gone to far by telling the children, but I dont regret it. They can make their own opinions of the OM now knowing all the facts.