Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[john28]

50/50 even when it's not feasible? I have to work and my son isn't in school until next year. He's in two day preschool 1/2 days. I've already set the precedent for having him on one of those days by working from home for a 1/2 day. Other than that, my hands are pretty tied to care for him on the other days.

Maybe if I go 50/50 and if her first right of refusal so she keeps him during the day if she wants to? I don't know what to do.

Her argument, and a valid one, is that she has stayed home with him all his life. He has a better bond with her because of that - and that is what is driving to less than 50/50.

Believe me, I want 50%. I'm just not sure how a court looks at that. Any advice on how a court would look at our sitch? Infidelity can't be proved. I've had a good job ever since we married. I've increased our earnings by 250% within 5 years. I had to drop out of college to get married and have a kid, same as her.