What am I supposed to do???

[Tay Tay]

gr8 day 2B alive-It is absolutely possible that the baby is the old boyfriend's. In fact I honestly believe that the baby is the old boyfriend's. I feel like he has already hurt me so much so why not just say "OW had a baby by her ex boyfriend and I am going to take care of it". There would be nothing that I could do. He has already hurt me so much that would not be anything more to deal with. Instead of telling me the truth though he tells me a lie that he knows will devastate me. If in fact it is his baby I am still done either way. I am not going to lie though I do want the truth. I know that I will never get it though. Somebody is going to be saying something though when I name her in this divorce suit. I know that nameing her is not going to change anything but we are not divorcing because of irreconcilable differences. We are divorcing because he committed adultery and he had a baby and I am telling it all in the divorce. Thanks for your support.

Pinhead-you are always so supportive and I thank you for that. I know that my H thought that I was going to be all over him like I normally am. This is a new day and I am done forever with that man because he is not the H I once knew.

My mom asked me why was I not going to just file for an uncontested divorce instead of going through filing for adultery? I told her because I would never ever file for divorce but he has crossed a line that he can't come back from. I am going to name the OW in the divorce, tell about the baby they had, and give them all the evidence that I have kept of text messages and all in the last 7 months. What do you all think about that? Should I file uncontested or on grounds of adultery?