Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[john28]

I actually need some help here.

My W sent me a text that said we need to work out custody until mediation is over. She wants to talk on the phone tonight and work out a custody arrangement so she can have a solid schedule for work hours. I too need a schedule because the old one doesn't work at all.

I don't know what to do. I feel like if we get a schedule in place, I can REALLY go dark. But if not, it'll be a constant communication struggle.

Before now we've had a loose schedule, centered around a few days. But a few things have happened to change that - like I wanted to have S4 on Saturday instead of Sunday (my normal day) this week because of an event we went to... then she finds out on Saturday that she has to work Sunday, so I get all weekend. Not the original arrangement... plus the original had me taking him on days that I took off from work right after our S because I wanted to take vacation and bond with him during this critical time.

I've been told both ways here to either get a L and have her served, or get a L retained and not tell her because she's a firecracker and would do something crazy.

I don't know what to do.