Originally Posted By: oldtimer
"Delete phone number = Kiss BTW wife has asked me nothing about the party and does not know about the number thing...

So Doc is back on track again…"

This is not back on track, or at least not on the track that leads to a healthy R.

This is lying by omission to your W. You know it too. Imagine the same thing happened with her -- these are things people share with each other in a trusting, monogomous R. You keep way too many "skirting the cheating line" things form W. It allows you to avoid facing yourself. It prevents you from building trust and intimacy with W.



This has been on my mind OT.... I was thinking the same thing about what if it was wife in the same sitch...I would want to know...

The only thing is that it was so bazare that I think she might think I was making it up...
This will be harder that an R talk...
Time to tell her what happened and how you felt about it.

Last edited by Dr LOve; 09/27/10 09:49 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know