Thanks for the compliment, Jeff! Every day I try to move a little bit forward. Some days I get farther than others!
I guess the mature thing to do is to discuss it. When did you talk about it with your golfing lady? I mean I don't want to be accused of being a tease, letting it get right to that point and then saying, "No, back off..." But I also don't want to be off-putting by saying, "Before we make out or anything, just know I don't want to have sex yet." Although that's funny bc it is EXACTLY what I did to Dan! In high school one night (he was in college then) he said, "Can we go drive somewhere? I feel weird standing there kissing you in front of your house." (HE would take me home, and we would kiss for a minute before I went inside.)
I said, "We can go somewhere but I am telling you right now I am not sleeping with you!" He laughed and said that wasn't what he was getting at, he just wanted to be alone with me...
I don't think I will use that approach going forward.
Heading out, have to work the JV football game tonight, then more float building.
