(((((BobbiJo)))))
Well, that was big stuff for you. And not long ago it would have torn you up, so I see progress in detachment!

It is possible to have multiple dates, and even some rather good kissing without sex. Though I must admit that it took specific planning on both of our parts to avoid it. And it would not have been much longer.

I think the key is to actually talk about it, and not assume anything. It actually seems to work.