Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I think I'll wait a little while, and read all the suggestions before I decide to say anything. I just feel like that confirms, there is VERY likely OM.
think I'll wait a little while, and read all the suggestions before I decide to say anything. I just feel like that confirms, there is VERY likely OM.
Let's say you get divorced and decide to move on. Let's say you meet a nice classy lady. Do you think she's going to hang around if you have an ex-wife that comes over and who is your buddy?
Nope, it's not going to happen.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
I should note, I'm a little concerned as to how to respond as I don't want her to turn vicious since the divorce is still pending. I fear if she becomes angry, she will get ugly too. But I do need to establish a boundary here. No Friends... All or nothing I think is wise
First off DB and DR, refer to Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy. In there are all the principles that you will run into on this site. Go out and get a copy ASAP! The answers to alot of your questions are in there.
Next...stop being scared. This is going to be a long process so you're going to have to stop panicking and start coming up with a plan.
I tell you one thing though. It's going to be the toughest thing you're ever going to do in your life. It's going to be counter-intuitive. It's going to go against everything you believe you should do. But if you want to try saving your marriage, give it a shot.
This process will test you in ways you never imagined. And it will be HARD. Are you willing to put in the commitment?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
