I think you need to be realistic about a difference between men and women. I can understand a 30+ year old woman being just fine with making out and not having any intention for sex. But when a middle aged guy is sucking face, his desire is to go further sometime soon. That is the main reason I stopped seeing the last lady - I wanted more besides just smooching, but her health problem was looking like there was no hope for my rounding the bases in the near or distant future.
