My wife told me she was no longer in love with me, she wasn't attracted to me, that she was attracted to another man, and she wanted a divorce.
So I backed off asking what she was doing and where she was going. We then watched a movie together (Fireproof - my pick) and I rubbed her feet. Our marriage is peachy now.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.