All great points City. Your H was a real *ick! Sorry that he treated you that way. To put it in your face like that without even the slightest bit of empathy smells to me like a sociopath. Not all guys are like that.
I also agree that the LBS needs time to catch and be able to afford to live on her/his own.
Seems you and I see eye to eye on this subject.
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012