Ok, so say she is having an affair, what do I do?

I can't ask as I will get lies, I'm not suppose to snoop around, so what do I do????

Unless I can get some hard evidence I have nothing, and if I accuse her and she isn't it will only make the situation worse

The only thing I can do is to look after me and when the time comes, either I find out or she tells me, I move on, its that simple.


But for now it's about me and the kids