No feelings for you is often because there are feelings for someone else. Robx told you that an EA had formed and you seemed to agree with that...so what have you done about that? Feelings for you won't return if there are feelings for someone else.
How can you become the better choice?
By not being a choice.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.