My state is a "No Fault" state. Even so there has been no affair. I have to say that I have no problem with supporting the person that gave up everything to raise the children (though she had no real aspirations other than to be a mom anyway).
I worked two full time jobs and put myself through school to keep her home so EVERYONE sacrificed.
As long as there is mutual respect from both parties and the realization that everyone needs to live. My beef is with those people with an attitude of, "take him for all he has". It’s also with those people that want lifetime support. That’s Bu!!sh!t!!
A 40 year old woman has the ability to be a lawyer or a doctor if she so chooses... So don’t give me this, “I’ll never be able to make what he makes, boo-hoo”.
I'm not talking about you City! Seems that you got sick and he bailed. That's awful... I am talking about those able-bodied women (and men) that decide to be an eternal leach just because they married someone... That’s entitlement and it’s crap!
Just venting!!!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
