Well obviously I have earned the scorn of my support here to a degree. I must say I was really doing the opposite of what felt like the right thing to to do, but I have seemed to get it wrong - again. I guess I'm back to square one - but have significantly detached and getting better at it everyday which is a plus and still working on me to get satisfaction as well.

I'm really still trying to get some insight here on the codependency syndrome that is effecting my w and how that relates to detachment on my part - it almost seems as a double edged sword that you can fail by detaching and also not being there - so a word of advice and any other insight to my stich would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks

DD

Last edited by DangerDave; 09/27/10 06:51 PM.
Me 49
H 46
M 23yrs
T 25 yrs
Bomb Drop 4/2010
S22/D19/D15/S13

Same roof, different beds

"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."