The way she was talking that she is not strong enough to continue with R. She has not filed for D. How long would a W hold on if her feelings have not changed in several months? She did note that her life is more peaceful than when I was in the house.
Do I take her stalling as she is she waiting for me to lead her feelings back to loving me? If I am leading what am I doing to get her to follow? (is this a solution oriented question I should be asking myself or do I need to refine?) What actions would work? The ifnfo you pointed out before pookie69? I am feeling better when I am in control, but I do not want to come across as controlling. She says she does not trust me, and I don't want to go across the line. In our conversation she did say that when she has backed off a little I assume that thing become much better and I jump over the line. I have heeded her warning of physical touch, no touching, hugging, kissing, etc.
Confused but getting more of a handle on the little baby steps.
HopelessIn Love
M and W:33 Kids M-10 ILYBNIL-4/2/10 Sep: 8/20/10 Back into house: 10/18/10
