I have been where you walk now. My biggest fear was getting D. Once I accepted it is when my DBing really started to have an impact. I was more confident about my future. I know I would be OK.
This took the pressure off of W.
Stop telling her and suggesting to her to see things your way, it won't work.
I wrote this before:
"The only way on earth to influence other people is to talk about what THEY want and show them how to get it." D Carnegie.
Let go of your fear, it is what's holding you back.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."