...she started in on The R. I tried only to listen. She became upset that "We" were talking of the R.
"W, I don't know how I feel about it either. I don't want to talk about us right now."
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She said she cared for me and loved me, but has had no change in the feelings of being "in love". She then said she has wanted thpse feeling to change, but they have not. Trust is a big issue with her toward me. She is not trusting of my change and does not know how much longer she can go on like this.
She is handing it over to you. Can't you see?
She wants to get her feelings back. Man up. It's time to lead.
Actions, not talk will get you there.
Be consistant.
Months ago I got the same words "You are only doing all this because you want to save this relationship."
"No," I said, "I'm doing it because it makes me feel good about myself." and I kept doing it.
If you have not found your catnip, now it's time to look for it.
