You r right, I just wanted to get the retro in her mind. I didn't see it that way. Yes the marriage book was before I figured out the going dark thing out. But suggesting Retro... Damn I misunderstood. I am still doing thinks to get a reaction, obviously... But trying to go dark the right way... For me. It seems divorce is gonna happen, I just have to proceed. Gonna sign up for that mandatory co-parenting class I guess. And proceed toward divorce, nothing I can do and prolonging seems silly at this point. Going Dark in 3,2,1.
