As I have nothing to base anybody else on, should I ask her straight if there is anybody involved?
I asked this a few weeks ago when she dropped the bomb, but she totally denied it, saying it was about how I have acted.
I have to keep focused on me and not think about another person.
I am happy in me and need to keep that my priority.
It's just the mild flirting, walking round half dressed that has me confused, it's like she wants me to react, but is it so that it can be used against me??
Yeah ask her straight, she's never lied to you before, why should she start now?
You: "Wife are you having an affair?" Wife: "No I am not!" (as she says this, she puts on new pair of sexy thong underwear in front of you, she seems to be wearing a lot of new underwear lately, and she also seems to be taking care of herself much more, she spends more on hair, nails, makeup, tanning, clothes, working out, eating better and she sure does go out more than she used to)
You two months later... "OMG I can't believe she was cheating me all that time?!"
