Originally Posted By: john28


Ok couple of things
- I haven't retained a L, only seeing one
- She doesn't know I'm seeing one, or has seen one
- I can't serve her. I live in a 1 year separation state before you can file - I guess I could have her served papers that I've retained a L?


No one said D papers. I’m talking about a cease and desist.

No major movements like closing accounts or moving money without express written consent. I realize that there is not much money there. This is just for posture.

And it WILL be effective.

Last edited by Sad_but_happy; 09/27/10 06:02 PM.

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012