Keep it that way. Are you sure she's not in contact with OM still?
I don't know for certain, but she's been way to busy otherwise. That subject came up the other day and she said that she is still remaining true to her vows - something about she has to deal with what she did and doing it again wouldn't help.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch