I am watching your thread closer now because it is so similar to where I will be once I am separated or divorced.
Hey buddy ... as much as we gain knowledge, perspective and ideas from reading others threads it would actually be helpful for both us (as support) and for you to be getting sitch specific stuff here on your own thread ...
Lay it out for us ...
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
