Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[Sad_but_happy]

John, for a few hundred dollars you can have a L write up a draft to freeze assets and accounts until mediation. And any changes or movement in monies can be done only in writing from both parties.

A lot can happen in 2 weeks. She has already shown that she does not need your permission to do anything...

Not to mention the fact that her having knowlege that you retained a L is a great sign of GAL'ing and moving on and showing her that you have reached your breaking point and you're ready to let go.

You want to regain control? Send the papers!

BUT, make sure she is served at least 3 days after the funeral. This way you show her support, you show her compassion, and you be her rock, and then BANG!!! 2x4 upside the head! She sees that you will not be there forever!

If you play this right (and I hate to turn it into a game), but if played right, she will take you seriously! Because right now she does not! You are wraped around her finger. And she knows it!